well, it looks like i found my answer. it probably my ali ide controller on the motherboard. it was a problem with naslite and looks like its carried over to naslite 2. sucks for me, don't really feel like buying a whole new board/cpu/ram just to make this work. might as well buy a standalone product.
here's the naslite board post that discussed it.
http://www.serverelements.com/phpBB2/vi ... .php?t=351
anyone else have this problem, and is there a solution that doesn't involve spending more money on hardware? would a pci ide controller fix this?